If you are in the midst of a budding relationship, the worst thing you can do right now is to try to rush things! Don't be so hard on yourself to meet a certain milestone. You cannot spend your time worrying about what you're doing right and what you may be doing wrong. Just be you and relax! You can be totally flirtatious and have a lot more fun if you're not doubting yourself or wondering why certain words haven't been said yet. This not a race, it is an experience.