In order to get a boost in your attitude, you should try to become more active in social situations. This means that you have to start calling the shots -- take initiative in the group, and make a few suggestions about where to go and what to do. Everyone else is looking for a change just as much as you are. And the only way to have a new experience is to consult a new source. That's where you come in! Pipe up for once and tell everyone what you think would be a fun thing to do.